If you were not the love of my life then what are you to me why are you in my dreams. dhavalvadi 4 years ago If you were not the love of my life then what are you to me why are you in my dreams. 1 If you were not the love of my life then what are you to me why are you in my dreams. If you were not the love of my life then what are you to me why are you in my dreams.