Spend a few minutes a day really listening to your spouse. No matter how stupid his problems sound to you. dhavalvadi 4 years ago Spend a few minutes a day really listening to your spouse. No matter how stupid his problems sound to you. 1 Spend a few minutes a day really listening to your spouse. No matter how stupid his problems sound to you. Spend a few minutes a day really listening to your spouse. No matter how stupid his problems sound to you.